My Niece Called Me

My niece called me today to tell me that her boyfriend's parents told her that they loved her & wanted her to be a part of their family, but they didn't like how their son treated her & that she needed someone to be nicer to her & to get away from him. So she said she talked to him for an hour last night about how they needed to stay away from each other. Then she said that today she heard he was in the hospital under strict care because he tried to commit suicide! And she feels it is all her fault. I was like no way! I told her that he is just messed up & that I blame that Sean Kingston song Beautiful Girls...Where it says suicide like 50 million times?? Anyway we don't allow that song in our car or anywhere for that matter. My boy was just learning to talk & say bigger words & that song came on & he said, "Suicide?" Yeah we dropped that song FAST! It's got a great tune, but the lyrics are horrible. I never used to listen to the lyrics & I always loved the beats & stuff...but now that I am a parent I flip out about the words in songs. Haha I just thought about what my friend, Sara's, husband did today while we were at work LOL! She had him call the company I work at (and there are 2 of us receptionists) and I answered the phone & he sang, "Touch My Body!" LOL Anyways that is off the subject, but yeah I think my niece needs to get away from this guy (he is a member of the church & adopted) Anyway he has issues he needs to get through & I don't think my niece is the cause. I kind of know how she feels cause I always felt I was the reason this one guy quit going to church. Cause I turned him down & told him to stop calling me & that was when he flipped. He started doing drugs & just going off the deep end :o(. Someone told me he went to my friend's house (her parents counselled everyone...) and he was crying & asked why I didn't like him. Anyway yeah after it all he just went and quit the church. So sometimes I think it's my fault, but people tell me no. Here is a question...what is it with guys when they love a girl so much that they just SNAP and do freaky stuff? Of course I guess girls can be the same way. Stalking the guy's house after breaking up LOL I admit I have done that LOL!!!! Ok I need to end this cause I need to relax a bit ;o) I hope I made some sense LOL!